
1. Stand up to bullies
In periods of political transition and turmoil, authority wanes and self-seeking vigorously asserts itself. Then bullies tend to appear. But, fortunately, their bark is much more impressive than their bite.
Bullies are only testing the water to check their buoyancy. If confronted with firmness and quiet perseverance, they will protest with more threats of violence and retaliation, grumble loudly, and then slink away.
The bully wears a mask like a dancer in a Khon play. Wait to see the true face behind the mask before making judgments about the real game being played.
Calm and respectful abiding by principle and the law will reveal whether or not bullies have real power to impose their interests or whether all they have is bluster.
2. Barami can't be bought
Real Barami, the kind that comes with bun and which brings genuine distinction, does not come simply by holding positions of power and possessing a lot of money.
Power and money bring a certain kind of forced pre-eminence, to be sure, but not lasting admiration and gratitude. Subordination of supporters bought with money or imposed with power does not last. Uneasy lies the head that surrounds itself with hypocritical professions of loyalty from paid or coerced retainers.
The politician who goes down the road of seeking money and administrative power can never turn back to virtue. More and more money and power become ever more necessary to keep one's dependents in line. So, the game has to be fixed to get the means to keep up one's position. Real barami slides farther and farther away.
Thus, it is foolish to use politics to climb the ladder of barami and try to enter the ranks of the established moral elite. It won't work.
Use politics to serve the people and the right kind of barami will come to you of its own accord.
3. Thai politics is just another form of Thai drama; take your mask off
There is a lot of smoke and noise in politics; rumors and schemes; shifting alliances and false friendships; all under the cover of polite conventions and smiling deference.
But the noise and the gestures are mostly those of actors only. Take off your mask and expose to public disdain the others who then refuse to do so. Be yourself and speak your mind - politely of course.
Don't just play a role of convenience; be decisive and take real risks in order to do good. Better to light a candle than to curse the darkness.
4. Confront with Kreng-chai
Confrontation can be civil and respectful. In fact, differences don't have to be confrontational, more like sharing views in a dialogue or a conversation. Detach points of view, suggestions, and concerns from power and status; let comments and ideas stand on their own for consideration by others.
5. Dialogue is not defeat
Dialogue is the meeting of minds around ideas and initiatives. It is not a posture assumed for the purpose of tough negotiations. Standing on principle while entering into dialogue does not compromise your barami.
6. Beware Farangs bearing condescending advice
The farang mindset, no matter how well educated or how well intended, has no necessary commitment to the wellbeing of Thai society. Nor will the farang mindset necessarily have good remedies for Thailand if all goes wrong with farang recommendations to better conform Thai values and social practices with foreign standards.
Even the well-meaning farangs will probably not stick around to pick up the pieces if it all falls apart. Remember the Americans in South Vietnam, Laos and Cambodia.
7. Everyone is responsible
Don't leave important matters to a Thevada. Thai citizens shape Thai destiny. The helpful touch of many hands accumulates much good karma. Provide space for the effects of constructive contributions coming from all over.
8. Use the Thosapit Rajatham
The 10 guiding principles of just rule, taken from Theravada teachings on moderation, can work just fine in the 21st century.
Politicians, political parties, even government programs, can be judged good or bad by their alignment with the Thosapit Rajatham.